Sexual Assault/Misconduct
ok so one night i was at my friends 16 birthday party and of course there was drinking and smoking weed so i figured what the heck i guess i could have a little fun...well her mom came home early and ended up kicking everyone out so i went with my other girlfriends to this kids house and i didnt know whose house it was so i felt a little awkward.i ended up having a little too much too drink and smoked a little too much and passed out.all i remember was looking up and seeing him standing there smiling at me.the next day when i got home i was getting undressed to take a shower when i noticed that my panties were gone later on when i went to school this kid kept asking me about why i had sex when he was laying right beside me and i honestly could not remember doing anything with anybody.well thankfully i graduate this year and i wont have to see him smile at me everyday in the halls at school.
I was thrilled. I had been asked to the prom, the biggest night of the year, by the guy that everyone wanted to date. I was the envy of all of my friends. I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me! I knew that this was going to be the best night of my life. We met some friends at the dance and started taking tons of pictures. I was having fun with my friends but my date was bored and impatient. Finally he told me that he wanted to leave so that we could be alone. I wasn’t sure that was such a good idea but I knew I didn't want our date to be over so soon. We got in the car and drove around for awhile. Then he stopped the car and started to force himself on me. I didn’t like it and I told him I wanted him to stop and to take me home immediately. He did take me home even though he seemed pretty mad at me. I talked to my parents and the counselor at school about what happened. I didn’t want anyone to get into trouble but I did think it was important for me to be able to talk to the adults that I trust. A few days after this happened we had an assembly on dating issues. During the assembly the presenter talked about the laws regarding sexual conduct. We all learned that certain types of sexual conduct are felonies. (ARS 13-1401-1406). I think it helped to hear how serious this can be. The guy who had been my prom date even apologized to me later in the day. I’m sure he and I won’t go out again but at least we can be polite to each other. I also know I won’t let myself get into a situation like that again.
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