I was thrilled. I had been asked to the prom, the biggest night of the year, by the guy that everyone wanted to date. I was the envy of all of my friends. I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me! I knew that this was going to be the best night of my life.
We met some friends at the dance and started taking tons of pictures. I was having fun with my friends but my date was bored and impatient. Finally he told me that he wanted to leave so that we could be alone. I wasn’t sure that was such a good idea but I knew I didn't want our date to be over so soon. We got in the car and drove around for awhile. Then he stopped the car and started to force himself on me. I didn’t like it and I told him I wanted him to stop and to take me home immediately. He did take me home even though he seemed pretty mad at me. I talked to my parents and the counselor at school about what happened. I didn’t want anyone to get into trouble but I did think it was important for me to be able to talk to the adults that I trust. A few days after this happened we had an assembly on dating issues. During the assembly the presenter talked about the laws regarding sexual conduct. We all learned that certain types of sexual conduct are felonies. (ARS 13-1401-1406). I think it helped to hear how serious this can be. The guy who had been my prom date even apologized to me later in the day. I’m sure he and I won’t go out again but at least we can be polite to each other. I also know I won’t let myself get into a situation like that again.
On 06/10/10
from OR said:
you did the right thing.:)
On 01/07/10 CJ from AZ said:
My son is 19 and "in love" with a girl who soon will be 16. She seems consenting but neither of them realizes the risk in which they are putting my son's entire future if reported to the law. Since the girl's guardians are not doing anything to prevent the behavior, I am absolutely terrified my son will eventually end up in prison.
On 12/04/09 ashley from FL said:
i think that what happened was not good at all but he didnt do anything when you said stop he stopped i dont think thats against the law he didnt hurt you and yea he did the right thing too apologize because you wasn't ready yet but u didi go with him alone so u knida led him on
On 10/10/09 VJ from AZ said:
HI, I'm really proud of you that you showed the guts to tell others of the incident... Good job and take care in mere future...bless you
On 09/24/09 julisa from NM said:
hey im so glad u did the RIGHT thing!im so glad u r a smart chik...both of u guys learned a BIIIG lesson i wish both of u the BEST in your life
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